How much can you really blame a person for putting you through hell when you took their hand and willingly followed along?
Does stupidity on one person’s part excuse cruelty on another’s? Or nullify it in some way?
How do you know how much you should hold yourself accountable and blame yourself for putting yourself in such a vulnerable situation when you knew it was a terrible idea? Or does that teeter on the edge of thinking similarly to abused individuals where the wronged party is constantly justifying the abuser and blaming themselves?
F-k it. I guess it all comes back to not having control over any external situations or any other person… the only thing you can control is yourself and your reactions to thing. I’m the one who knew the repercussions and did it anyway.
FAIL.
